'Bully proof' - How to ensure that your child have

Although the school where you are either ordinary schools or boarding schools, bullying is no longer any symptoms that weird anymore.


It was as if a convention and would have faced by all through school age.

Often, male students more involved with cases of bullying.

There are three types of bullying include physical, such as kicking, punching, take or destroy the goods of others.

The second type involves verbal bullying such as calling someone's name with the titles of shame and ask for pocket money from other students.

While the third type involves emotions such as teasing, mempersenda or disseminate defamatory, defamation of a person.

As we know, bullying occurs in students is seen as weaker than bully.

The problem of bullying in schools has actually become the main source of students who bullied do not like to go to school and eventually result in poor achievement.

Fear causes the students who bullied also refused to go to school bullying. There is also a victim of bullying that began to hate school.

Worse, if continued, the incidence of bullying will be given to victims of emotional stress.

Victims will be silence, depressed and insecure.

According to the survey was conducted by child psychologists, victims of bullying incidents that have continued to experience stomach problems, nightmares, always nervous and always in fear.

As a parent you have to do something to help your children do not become victims of bullying that eventually will affect their studies at school.

Among the steps to do are:

. Accept complaints in open

As a parent, you should care for their child's complaints about what happened at school. However, in this context, do not over-react and take action in a hurry to continue to 'attack' the students said that bullying of your child.

Validity of the questionnaire correctly your child's complaints.

Important, show you your not alone to face his problem and you will always be nearby to hear any problems.


. Reassure them

When your child is listening to complaints, at the same time, you need to reassure him that what happened is not wrong.

This is important for his confidence as a victim of bullying has been scratched and now find themselves as victims who need protection.


. Own complete skill problems

Although you can play a role as a responsible person to protect them, but it is better if at the same time you provide the ideas and equipping them with skills to solve their own problems.

Own problem-solving skills will give it to feel more confident with myself, and he can also use these skills to cope with different situations in the future.


. Continue to ask

From time to time, you should always ask how you deal with the problem of bullying. Continue to discuss, talk and do not leave him alone to face the problem.

Always ask, what other forms of assistance may be provided to solve the problem. However, the important, not seen too much to protect your child. Placed confidence in him that they could solve their own problems.

Your moral support is very important.


.Teaching techniques

If you are fortunate, teach your child how to deal with a bully by teaching them to say `Do not bother me again 'in a way that is not provocative but full rigor.


. Make sure he befriends

You also can advise them not to be alone, especially at-risk places such as school toilets or a place waiting for the bus.

Advise your children that they are friends.

.Help

It is also important for you to instill faith in them that, no one to ask for help from teachers or other colleagues who is older.


.Social skills

Students who are bullied are often those who are often alone. If he is faced with social problems, you can start to teach him how to make friends and socialize.

Galakkannya to participate in school activities and once all your friends to invite others to come to the house.


.See a school teacher

If the problem is serious, you can make a complaint to the school or the Parent Teacher Association (PTA) to develop strategies to overcome the problem of bullying.

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